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About Robert

“Integrologist” and Coach

SO YOU’RE PROBABLY WONDERING… who the heck is this person?

Who I am: I’m a relationship coach specializing in attachment styles, communication, and conscious transformation – both physically and mentally. I work with individuals who are ready to break free from old patterns, heal attachment wounds, and finally experience fulfilling, secure relationships. My clients tend to be young professionals, successful in their careers but finding themselves stuck or unsatisfied in their love lives.

When I’m not coaching, I’m deeply immersed in somatic practices. As a Guild Certified Feldenkrais® Practitioner, I explore how movement can shift awareness and unlock deeper transformations in the body/mind/self. I am also in many deep and fulfilling relationships with friends and loved ones around the world.

My Story

How I got started…

I began my journey as a classical singer, earning two degrees in Vocal Performance and performing professionally as a countertenor for 12 years. Along the way, I became a Guild Certified Feldenkrais® Practitioner, revolutionizing how the Feldenkrais Method could transform vocal learning.

My career took me everywhere—from Harvard to Broadway, leading workshops across Europe, and even coaching backstage at “The Tonight Show with Jimmy Fallon.”

But despite the success, I felt something was missing. During the pandemic, after a draining long-term relationship ended, I embraced a transformative journey of self-discovery, diving into attachment theory, chronic shame, and consciousness work while stepping out of old patterns.

Earning certifications in Applied Existential Coaching, Integrated Attachment Theory, and Somatic Attachment practices, I grew profoundly. Now, in a secure and healthy relationship, I witness transformation in myself, my partner, and the clients I guide toward creating secure, meaningful lives.

Robert Sussuma is outside on a deck listening to a couple that is out of the scene.

I’m passionate about personal growth, expanding consciousness, and creating space for people to heal and develop from the inside out.

Growth takes courage. But when you make the decision to dive in, the results can be extraordinary. And I’m here to guide you every step of the way - even beyond what you think is possible!

I’ve walked this journey myself, and now I’m passionate about helping others do the same—in their own unique way.

What I Do

After years of studying movement, learning, psychology, existentialism, and consciousness theory, I realized traditional relationship coaching missed a vital piece: the integration of embodiment, movement, and somatic awareness. Relationships aren’t just about communication or compatibility—they’re shaped by attachment, unhealed wounds, unconscious behaviors, and even how we move, breathe, and sense ourselves in space. This realization came from my own journey of transformation.

As a successful professional, I found myself stuck in repetitive relationship patterns, leading me to combine everything I’d learned—from attachment theory to somatic practice—to create “The Body of Consciousness.”

My approach blends deep personal development with embodied transformation, empowering individuals to tune into their needs, break old patterns, and cultivate secure, meaningful connections. Relationships are one of the most powerful arenas for growth, and when we heal how we connect, we heal ourselves – and vice versa.

Today, I help others move beyond surface fixes through workshops, coaching, and embodied processes that lead to lasting change.