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ROBERT SUSSUMA – “INTEGROLOGIST” AND COACH

THE BODY OF CONSCIOUSNESS

Robert Sussuma.

IT’S TIME TO IMPROVE YOUR LOVE LIFE…

by improving your relationship with yourself!

Your love life got you down?

You’re a catch, right? So, why can’t you find that right person for you?

Apps, dates, long conversations, emotional vulnerability, attraction, expectations, vetting, confusion, lies, disappointment… It’s a lot to put yourself out there and it’s so disheartening to try and try again and not have it ever work out.

No wonder you feel like you should just settle or give up.

Beautiful, I see you! 

You deserve a life filled with great relationships!

You do! We all do. But, what most of us don’t really take to heart is that ALL great relationships – especially those of the romantic variety – start with ourselves! When you understand yourself, work with your attachment style, wounds, needs and up-level your understanding of human relationships and start to act from this new understanding something magical happens… you become the perfect partner for yourself and therefore are ready to find other people to join you in that partnership as you do the same with and for them.

Imagine… dating while knowing what to do, what to say, and how to be. Imagine feeling like you can REALLY be yourself while enjoying a dynamic and growing connection with another present and clear person you totally get and who gets you. 

You deserve a beautiful connection with EVERYONE in your life!

And this is just the beginning of an authentic experience in this world… Becoming secure resolves many of the social and internal questions we have grappled with since childhood. On the other side, we have room inside to freely and intentionally grapple with the bigger and deeper questions that await us in this life. 

About Robert…

I get it. It took me way too long to figure all of this out in an embodied and secure way, but now that I have I keep thinking… Everyone needs to do this kind of work… especially young, single professionals!*

You need to:

  • Step out of the dating game for a minute and focus on yourself
  • Look at your patterns and beliefs
  • Work with your wounds and update the bedrock of your personality
  • Understand your needs and the needs of others
  • Think about relationships differently
  • Ask the big questions about life and happiness
  • Expand your healthy ego to include more and more of life and love itself

It’s time to show up, grow up and glow up, babes.

You can do this! I did it (over several years), and I can show you
how to do it much more efficiently.
The journey never ends, but the benefits can kick in pretty quickly.

    *Are you wondering: What does that mean? Is that me?… Ideally, you’re 25-35 and out there making a good living! This is an ideal time and situation in which to do this work, but it’s not a requirement. If you have a different situation, but are still single (not dating, no lingering strings attached to previous partners, etc.), reach out. Let’s see if we’re a good fit.

      The Body of Consciousness: Relationship Reset Coaching

      Initial Fit Session

      Book a 30min “fit call” in which we can get to know each other, find out where you’re starting from and where
      you’d like to get in love and in your life.
      Find out your Attachment Style, too!

      BOOK NOW – $40

      One-on-One Coaching for Singletons

      After our initial fit call, if we’re a good fit and you’re ready to commit to yourself and your own journey toward authentic security BEFORE getting back out into the dating scene, then we can set up a 3-4 month 1:1 coaching package that works for you and your needs!

      "[A]ttachment styles have key subconscious triggers that occur because of the repetition of a specific emotion at a young age. Those core wounds are then what produce automatic thoughts that must be witnessed to avoid perpetuating outdated beliefs."

      – Thaïs Gibson, “Attachment Theory: A Guide to Strengthening the Relationships in your Life”

      "[The] Absolute order is present in its entirety, interpenetrating every point of space and time, so that all of eternity and the cosmos is wholly present right here and right now. At some level then, all the previous and future states of an individual (fetus, infant, child, adolescent, adult, and corpse) coexist with (or without!) embodiment as we usually think of it (since embodiment can be construed as spatiotemporal representation in the explicate order) in the infinite space/time reality of the Cosmic Matrix."

      – Jenny Wade, “Changes of Mind”

      To become fully Secure - in the Attachment sense - is a wonderful and necessary personal development, especially for those of us who have been functioning insecurely for most of our lives, but it's only the beginning of Authentic development in consciousness across all of the areas of our lives. Can we be secure enough to be willingly and safely dysregulated into further and further development - personally and interpersonally - for the purpose of greater and greater expansion, regulation and integration of ourselves in reality?! I say YES!"

      – Robert Sussuma